Now a good number of guys have no issues getting a girl into their bedchamber, be it their girlfriend, fuckbuddy or a one night stand from the local bar. Problem is, many don’t know how to function once this happens. No, I’m not talking about rousing the disco stick or irrigating the fields, if you catch my drift, but effectively taking the reins in the sack and being that whirlwind of pleasure every man wants to be. Many guys don’t know how to (or are too nervous to) treat their lover the way they want to be treated. A little rough sex never hurt anybody and, in fact, could be the exact spice a relationship needs. Oftentimes, it brings out that well hidden Electra complex that sends women over the edge at the hands of a dominant man. These are some simple little tips and tricks to be that domineering bed-partner women tremble for.
1. The Spank
All hail the mighty hand of man as it swatteth the buttock of woman. The spank is the most commonly used and effective tool in your tacklebox of naughty tricks. It is one of those things that instantly cements your bedroom dominance over your lover and sets the tone of the coitus from “gentle love-making” mode to “the neighbors are gonna hate us” mode. Use wisely, however. While one girl may love getting spanked repeatedly and hard, another may very well just want a swat or two to augment the mood. Always test with a light slap then continue until satisfied. Best done during doggy style or spoons position.
2. The Fish Hook
The fish-hook is the act of hooking your fingers into the side of a woman’s mouth and pulling lightly as if you’re using her mouth as a handle. It looks, feels and sounds degrading, but degradation is often, especially during rough sex, a MAJOR turn on for both parties involved. However, make sure not to pull too hard so as to result in injury. Nothing screws up a good time like an impromptu hospital visit. It’s best used, very carefully, during the doggy style position.
3. The Bite
Bring it back to the wild kingdom with this classic: The Bite. Biting is one of the main ways animals exert dominance over one another, especially with their mate. It instantaneously sparks the fires of pure passion, adrenaline and, most of all, sexual arousal. It can be as tame as the common nibble on the nipple, ear or neck. On the other hand, some may favor the much less common, but invariably intense, vampire play, which includes the drawing, tasting and, sometimes, drinking of your partner’s blood. Again, like the fish-hook, biting can be dangerous if done excessively and incorrectly, especially around the carotid arteries of the neck. Also, always check if your partner has been tested for any type of STD if you do want to go sanguinarian. Blood is the main transmitter of infections such as Hepatitis and HIV.
4. The Citizen’s Arrest
Holding a girl’s hands behind her back (or even above/next to their heads) is another way to show who’s wearing the pants in the naked dance. It immediately says that you are in control of the rut and that she is simply a passenger on the winding road to O-Town. Many women get off on the idea of being helpless and submissive. This is the perfect way to achieve that feeling. Nevertheless, pay very close attention to the yells and moans. If your lover wants you to stop, you stop. This is best done in the doggy style position or while receiving oral sex.
5. The Choke
This is an iffy one. Some women love to have a hand (or two) around their neck, especially at the time of orgasm. In scientific terms, this is known as erotic asphyxiation A.K.A. breath play. It depends directly on the girl how hard, if at all, she wants to be choked. The idea is that the lack of oxygen to the brain and increase in carbon dioxide in the bloodstream induces a semi-hallucinogenic feeling of euphoria and giddiness called hypoxia. This, coupled with the power-play of one’s breathing being controlled by another, is like a sexual typhoon that violently sweeps through the recipient’s body and mind. Exercise EXTREME caution, however. If done too overzealously and without the proper precautions it could result in serious injury or death. Practice at your own will.
6. The Bitch Slap
This is another iffy one, albeit a fair amount less dangerous. The Bitch Slap is rather self-explanatory: You slap a bitch. The severity and frequency of the slap is different with each girl. While one may enjoy their guy going slap happy on their face, another might react negatively to the idea altogether. It is fairly demeaning, like the others in this list, and rather violent. Many guys, in fact, won’t be able to bring themselves to get over that principle of “never hit a girl” and will chicken out of the idea. Also, make sure both partners trust each other and that the slapping is consensual. The last thing a guy needs is a jail sentence for domestic abuse following a kinky lovemaking session that got out of hand.
7. The Wall
Ah young lust. If there’s a hard, flat, vertical surface nearby (A.K.A. a wall), use it to your advantage. Pick your lover up and, holding her legs up, put her back to it as you pump away face to face. Either that or, the more popular submissive position, have her stand, facing the wall, bent over slightly and use your weight to press her into the wall as you bang away. You can also couple this with the citizen’s arrest for explosive results. This really puts the girl right where she wants to be, between a rock and a hard place.
8. The Hair Pull
This is one of the oldest tricks in the book from a time when a marriage meant a man dragging his freshly clubbed “wife” into his cave by her hair to have his way with her. It elicits a submissive instinct dormant in women dating back all the way to the stone ages. It instantly tells them that you are the fuckER and they are the fuckEE. Nevertheless, pulling a girl’s hair is also the best way to control her movement. Grabbing the hair controls the head and controlling the head means you control the body. You can do this as a lead in to any of the following tricks or as a standalone (easiest during doggy style). Make sure not to pull too hard, however, unless you enjoy the thought of fucking Sinead O’Connor.
9. The Belt
Look down. Unless this post turned you on THAT much, I’m pretty sure you see your belt. Let me tell you, that thing does more than just hold up your pants. Immediately before rough sex, you need to be MacGyver. Almost anything and everything can be used as a tool to pleasure your lover. The most accessible of which is a belt. A belt can become a vast array of things including handcuffs, leg binders, a whip and even a makeshift leash for you really kinky ones. The possibilities are endless. Never has there been an item so indicative of male domination than a nice leather belt.
10. Dirty Talk
The best thing to do during rough sex isn’t physical. It’s that dirty, naughty talk yelled out at eachother in the process. Make sure to ask some pertinent questions during the act: Who does she belong to? What does she want you to do? Does she want it to be more intense? Does she enjoy what is going on? Also, make sure to ask her who her daddy is. You may or may not be surprised with the answer. Either that, or just arrange a string of curse-words and sexual slurs together, throw a “bitch” on the end of it and you have some effective dirty talk spewing out of your mouth. Remember, a good 80% of a woman’s orgasm stems from mental stimulation.
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