For many women, an orgasm isn’t a given during sex. But there are a few guidelines you can follow, as your lady’s lover, to get her to climax each time you are intimate.
One of the best ways to bring a woman to orgasm is to grab her butt during sex. Despite the attention that a woman’s behind receives while she is outside the bedroom,org this asset is often overlooked during sex. That area of the body is filled with nerves, that when touched increases sexual arousal and stimulation. Just grabbing her butt may be just the unexpected thing that a girl needs to be stimulated. However, until after you’ve had a conversation about it, hold off on spanking the backside. Do not overlook this, as it is a woman’s most important asset.
A second tactic that is even more orgasmic is when, in the missionary position, the penis is rubbed against the clitoris. Additionally, this method is even more orgasmic when the woman’s legs are together and the man straddles her. This increases clitoral stimulation.
There is no doubt, however, that going down on a woman is the most effective form of arousal (and thus, orgasm). Naturally, how much stimulation needed depends on the woman. It is quite important for a man to learn what his female partner enjoys, and learns how to properly give her what she wants. Make use of your lips, tongue, and chin to rub against the clitoris. Make certain that the motions of your tongue are both aggressive and authoritative. Use your own discretion as you continue, whether you give her a tongue bath or finger stimulation. Either of these techniques are proven methods for continuing on the path to an effective orgasm.
Perhaps the most important thing to remember is that continued contact with the clitoris is essential to achieving orgasm. However, without an effective lubricant it can become quite uncomfortable for a woman. Add just a few drops of lubricant to her pubic mound to lubricate her area. When it comes to lube, less is truly more.
Naturally, if she is having trouble reaching orgasm, despite your efforts, there is always a vibrator. Perhaps the most effective, stand-by way of achieving an orgasm, ask your woman which speed and pressure on the vibrator she prefers. Every woman has a different speed and pressure she prefers when it comes to vibrators. If you are looking for a sure-fire, battery-assisted method of helping her achieve orgasm, just hold it against her clitoris, alternate positions, and watch the magic happen.
Lynne T Murray
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