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Comparative Cock 101

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Anyone who has ever done dealings with a dick knows how it eventually goes.  “Well, is it one of the bigger ones you’ve had?”

Well, about that.  Here’s the deal.  It does not matter.  This may come as a shock to some of you.  Although its been spoken and written about countless times and should in no way come as a surprise.  But speaking quite generally here, cock size is rarely if ever a game changer.  The reason being is simple; chances are that no one that you ever stick that dick in will care about the size of it as much as you do.

For those of you with a smaller toy soldier to work with, don’t fret.  A lot of the time you guys are so preoccupied with pleasing your partner, the size of your plug is an afterthought.  It’s likely that if your little guy is littler than the next guy’s you are trying twice as hard to satisfy in the sack. For those of you who are packing the hammer, that’s awesome.  You’ve got a running start.  This does not mean, however, that with the splendor of your member you never have to make an effort.  Do everyone a favor.  Stop talking about how big your penis is, and put that bad boy to work.  Having a big swinging dick doesn’t give you a free pass to act like an egotistical idiot. In fact, the more you talk about how big your penis is, the less appealing both your penis and yourself, become.  Stick to the size queens and find someone who cares that your dick hangs low.

Yes, there are people out there with some of the most beautiful dicks who also have the personality to match.  But even those guys must know deep down that they aren’t changing lives with their knob.  A big fat phallus is not a solid promise for earth shattering sexcapades. What is important is to be confident about the size of your star player, large or small, and use your gift for good.   Asking your partner to compare your penis to other penises is arrogant and annoying.   If your lover is so enrapt with your package, they will tell you, or better yet, show you.  Don’t let bothersome dialogue get in the way of good old-fashioned enjoyment.  Don’t confuse “bothersome dialogue” with dirty talk.  When you are in it to win it, cock worship is fair game.  What I am addressing is that conversation before or after sex, during which you ask your partner for a rundown on where your cock falls in the lineup of dimensions.

The trick is not having the biggest dick in town.  It’s all about putting that dick to work.   Each penis and vagina is so distinctive; size is not the only factor determining how satisfactory the sexin’ can be.  Bare in mind the average size of a male penis is between five and six inches.  If you feel undersized, there are tons of ways (ribbed condoms, enhancing lubricants, cock rings, sleeves, and even pumps and extensions) to increase your performance and confidence.

If you are completely in tune with your partner, conscientious of what they are enjoying or not enjoying, and receptive to their requests, the size of your penis won’t make much of a difference.  So do your partner a favor and keep the small talk and comparative studies in the bedroom to a minimum.

By: Rhys Darling

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