You probably know that TG stands for transgender, or that S&M stands for sadomasochism. However what if you’re cruising craigslist ads and find one looking for fellow AB/DLs? Or your new crush on fetlife asked you to come to a WAM party with her? Well that’s why I’m here to help you look less like a vanilla square by demystifying some odder kink acronyms.
BDSM: Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadomasochism.
Yes, it’s three kinks in one! These oft-grouped together fetishes usually involve some power imbalance between the sexual partners. Bondage is the tying, locking, chaining, and otherwise securing of body parts or people, anywhere from your classic hand-cuffs to the bed post to vacuum sealed bags with a breathing tube (I’m serious). Discipline is any strict rules and punishments that are used in the bedroom, such as not being allowed to talk, being a servant, and being spanked or otherwise beat for any indiscretions. Dominance and submission can use any of these other techniques, as it’s simply giving control to or taking control from one’s partner, either partially or entirely. And sadomasochism is for everyone who enjoys a little pain with their pleasure. These are all great ways to turn plain “sex” into an experience that you’ll remember for years, just make sure you trust your partner and play safe!
BBW and BHM: Big Beautiful Women and Big Handsome Men
The phrases “Big Beautiful Girl” and “Big Handsome Man” are used to distinguish big gals and guys who got it goin on from those who are just ugly and fat. The idea here is that just because you’re over 200lbs on the scale doesn’t mean you can’t be a 10. Fans of the larger body type are often referred to as “admirers,” or “fat admirers (FA), while exceptionally large ladies are termed SSBBW for “super sexy” BBWs. The term BHM is not as common as BBW, some prefer the term “chub” especially in the gay community. In that case, fans of chubs are dubbed “chasers,” and chubs who seek to get bigger are “gainers.” So man or woman, straight or gay, if you’re big and proud there’s plenty of people ready to love you up.
PVC: Polyvinyl Chloride
This one may seem odd unless you’re turned on by the periodic table. What PVC refers to is clothing made out of the substance, a thin plastic and latex like material. The shine gives it that sexy sheen like you’re coated in oil, and makes a cheaper alternative to leather wear. It’s perfect for that catwoman fantasy scenario, or that sexy nurse outfit for halloween. It’s also the same material that most inflatables are made out of, so if you happen to know a balloonie (a lesson for a later post), you might lure them into bed with this plasticwear for the body.
PAWG: Phat Ass White Girl
Apple bottoms, pear shaped, rubenesque, whatever you call ‘em, they all have one thing in common: a phat ass. PAWGs break the stereotype by having a vanilla badonkadonk that can shake it just as hard as any sistah can. You don’t have to be a BBW to be a PAWG, only your ass need be large and in charge. And to all those PAWGs out there: if you got it, flaunt it. Too many girls are worried about being skinny and try to hide their junk in the trunk, but there’s plenty of guys just like Sir-mix-a-lot out there who love a lady with a big booty.
CD: Cross-dresser
Used as a noun, like “young CD seeks masculine top,” cross-dressers have a variety of reasons for why they dress the way they do. A large percentage of CDs are actually straight men, who either enjoy the feel of softer looser clothes, or enjoy the sissification and humiliation of wearing female clothing in the bedroom. Often these CDs enjoy being spanked, teased, flogged, and even pegged (having your girlfriend fuck you with a strap on). There are also of course many bi and gay cross-dressers, some playing the part so well you have to look twice. Online slang for twink-ish CDs is “traps” as in you think you’ve brought home a hot girl, but when the clothes hit the floor you realize it’s a trap!
AB/DL: Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers.
Diaper lovers is easy to define: people who like wearing, and some even using, diapers. For some it’s an image thing, for others it’s the “letting go” while filling their diapers, sometimes to capacity and more. Adult babies are people who engage in role play scenarios as babies or toddlers. Often referring to themselves as “littles,” they like to wear jammies, use pacifiers, be fed, and otherwise be taken care of. Now these are two different fetishes, and not all diaper lovers partake in baby play, nor do all ageplayers wear or use their diapers. However there is plenty of crossover, and one company even makes adult diapers with teddy bear and star patterns for AB/DL enthusiasts. Or people with giant man-babies I guess.
WAM: Wet and Messy
Ever see a classic 80s movie food fight, or watch someone get “slimed” on Nickelodeon, and start getting a boner? Well you’re not alone! WAM players love having various substances on their naked bodies and/or clothes. They run the gamut from foods like custard, ice cream, and pudding, to inedibles like mud, lotion, and shaving cream. These could also include liquids like beer, milk, or water (who doesn’t love a good wet t-shirt contest?). Just remember that this is not about being covered in human-created-substances, so it’s not bukkake or WS. What’s WS? I’m glad you asked…
WS: Water Sports
We’re talking piss here folks, good old fashioned golden showers and the like. For big WS fans urine can go anywhere: on your face, all over your body, inside your mouth, up your butt, in your cooch, whatever! As always make sure that your as sanitary as possible when peeing all over somebody, or at least move your fun to the bathroom where the tile is much more stain-resistant than your thousand-thread-count sheets. Side note: I don’t think there’s an abbreviation for scat play (pooping that is), but it is distinct from WS, so just because your sub’s letting you piss on her face, doesn’t mean you can go number 2 on her too.
DP: Double Penetration
And I don’t mean two fingers. DP is for the advanced bottom, being able to take two cocks in them at once. Nine times out of ten this means a woman is getting one up the ass, while another dick is slamming her hotbox. However this could also mean an extra-limber person getting two penises into one hole, vaginal or anal, which gives the gentlemen a bonus stimulation from rubbing shafts and balls together (if they aren’t too wussy to rub dicks). Given the logistic issues, it’s often easier to replace one of the dongs in this scenario with a dildo, so you can still open your bottom wide without getting everyone’s limbs in a knot.
CBT: Cock and Ball Torture
We finish our acronyms with one that will make many men stop reading this article. Cock and Ball Torture is the term for things as light as feather-tickling and ice-rubbing, to more violent clips, clamps, and yes even kicks to the groin. There’s a variety of BDSM related ways to do CBT, such as cock rings to keep you hard, or ball stretchers that hang weights from your scrotum (safely) to pull down on them. There’s also foot-stomping, especially if you’re into fem-dom or heels, or simply flogging your cock.
Hopefully you’re now up to date on your sexual phrasology, so the next time someone says they’re looking for a CD to DP, PAWG wearing PVC, or BBW for CBT play, you have to JFGI (just fucking google it.)
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