What do you do if you’re kinky and you don’t have anyone to play with? Play with yourself! This goes way beyond masturbation.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of believing you need a partner to make kink work—that you need someone whispering, “You’re a dirty little girl,” over and over again to reach that climax. This simply isn’t true. To make kink fun for one, raise the stakes.
Sure it’s fun to be tied to the bed while your lover drips hot wax into your naval. How could this be replicated when you’re alone?
Ever done it in a church?
It’s an instant naughty vibe and it will escalate your self bondage to a whole new level. Tie some saran wrap around your wrists. Saran wrap is the ultimate self bondage tool. It’s easy to do one handed, it creates an uncomfortable sweat factor and it will hold like a bitch if you tug on it. Ever seen Dexter? On the other hand, if you get yourself into a compromising situation, you can rip it open with your teeth.
Heading out into the world with your wrists bound will make you feel like everyone sees your dirty little perversions, but if you make sure to wear a jacket, people are unlikely to notice. You’ll feel your bondage every time you shift your car into drive or make a left hand turn. Now add in midnight mass and you have candles. Sit next to someone, don’t hide in the back, and let the wax drip onto your hands and maybe even let a little fall on your thighs if you’re wearing a short skirt. Definitely, go up for communion.
Do you have a fetish? Not all of us can be blessed with a foot fetish. Some of us have fetishes that we wouldn’t even want to use with our partners, but you’re not with a partner. You’re alone. Embrace your fetish … in public. I’m not encouraging you to do anything illegal, but if you have a panty fetish, wear your favorite pair to the club and take a leak in the urinal. No one’s looking, but it won’t matter to your mind or your cock. Have a fetish for … lollipops? Take one into the stall, swirl it around your pussy, come back out and suck on it front of all the other guests in line at Starbucks.
Are you into pee? Your lover might not be into cleaning up the mess, but they’re not here. Pee on yourself next Saturday night. Everyone will just think you’re wasted, if they can even tell at all. The sidewalks are too dark to show off those clammy pants clinging to your thighs. Work yourself up to doing it during the day.
Have you ever fucked yourself with a vegetable? Jacked off in the bathroom stall at work? (Don’t get fired!) It doesn’t always have to be extreme either. If you’re into humiliation, what about going to a lecture and asking a really stupid question?
Whatever it is that gets you off with two, there’s a creative way to do with just one. The key is in taking it one level higher than you would with a partner. Try it. You may just find yourself wishing your partner would go out of town so you can do it again.
It’s foreplay for your masturbation. Enjoy!
Kole
(more from Kole at www.developingkole.com)
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