Positions:
The best position for most individuals greatly depends on the couple, however a few work well for the majority of women. But positions can really give you more flexibility when going down on a man and depends on what you feel comfortable with. Test out the furniture; chairs, tables, use the bed to your advantage. You could:
1. Get him to sit on a chair and kneel in between his legs on a pillow. Good for all over action, getting your hands to his balls and deepthroating
2. Him lying down (bed or floor most likely), this is good for feeling relaxed. With him lying on the bed and you on your knees (or as you wish) in between his open legs at the bottom of the bed. Good for faster blowjobs as you have more leverage, also a good lazy position if you want to curl around him.
3. Him standing up – you could be kneeling/sitting/lying on the bed as he stands next to you – this is probably best for deepthroating. If you are confidant and can get the right height.
4. Him putting one leg raised on the bed whilst standing as you’re on all fours/on your side at the correct height/bed. (Good for a change of position from lying down on the bed).
5. Lying down in what would be the 69 position but to the side of him on the bed. Great for him to get to you too and he’ll be able to see everything you’re doing which is a massive turn on.
6. If you’re looking for something specifically good for deepthroating (also try on a chair) then him standing next to the bed whilst you lie on your back with your head just off the bed/table/object of decent height, supported by a pillow can give you lots of room for him to thrust as your mouth and throat are at their most open. Make sure you are happy with the amount of pressure he is applying, as this is a trusting position where you both need to feel comfortable. This is fun and safe done sensibly and you can use your hands to stop him thrusting as necessary (also works with no. 3)
7. Not to mention, playing in the 69 position is always fun and you can battle it out ‘til the end.
How to make sure he lets you know he’s coming:
It is important to have good communication with your partner and talk openly about your sex life – not only to make your relationship better and healthier but to make sure each of you know what you want. Knowing what he does and doesn’t like is important, so if he’s a fan of some slight nibbling then go for it, if he’s not then it’s best to be aware of these things for a smooth ride. Get him to tell you when he’s close or coming so you have warning and are prepared. Don’t change too much of what you are doing unless you know there might be a particular something he likes. The best thing to do when he’s coming is to stay as deep as possible (but comfortable for you), this is usually not quite deepthroating but far enough away from his tip which will be most sensitive at this point and too much attention there can ruin a good orgasm and be too much.
General:
Simply keeping eye contact, touching his body with your hands (preferably massaging his balls some guys might like) or when you are able to as you go on/off him, massaging the side of his penis with your tongue is a really sexual act – simply over-exaggerating some of your tongue motions when you can.
Back scratching can really give him great sensations; from as light that you are tickling him to leaving him with long-lasting red marks all over. After an orgasm this is a nice relaxer and comforter lying side by side with your partner.
Performing like it’s a luxurious mission, and pleasurable one is imperative. To add to the wetness and sensual movements you’re already making, you want to give him noise… lots and lots of noise! Ask your boyfriend one thing that turns him on the most whilst down on him and it might be the sounds – sucking, slurping, humming – any and all different shapes you can make with your mouth gives a good vibration. Don’t be afraid to literally hum or make sounds of enjoyment. Talking is acceptable too but I doubt he’ll be able to hear with all his junk in your mouth!
Let’s be honest, hair looks hot down… the touch of your hair on his skin is cute but on a more realistic note, it can be very irritating depending on your position and generally If you feel like it will be getting in the way. Before you start going down on him make a massive deal of tying it up. Make sure he sees you doing this with thought and emphasis, a cute little smile on your face; make him think it’s necessary, he’s in for a good time.
Use your naked body as much as possible. Blowjobs are not simply just down to lip and tongue technique – it’s body technique. Move your head, circle with your tongue and at the same time move your head around as if you’re getting your whole body into it, he’ll feel completely immersed by you and won’t know what’s hit him. Give him a performance and enjoy being the main attraction – because after all, it’s a show for one. Ultimately you want to make him feel like he’s surrounded by your gorgeous body, inch over inch. The better you feel about it, the better he will too.
Finally, just aim to be relaxed and comfortable, it’s different for everyone and fun to learn about each other. So lock the bedroom door, take your time, and get ready to experiment on your partners’ body.
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This is excellent.