Everyone has their turn-ons and pet peeves when it comes to the universal predecessor of sex. Kissing is an act just as important to a relationship as good sex is.
Kissing can be a touchy subject that most partners are hesitant to address. However, the importance of a good kiss is crucial to the continuance of the relationship. Like with sex, the biggest issue with kissing is a lack of variety. Just like you do not want to have regular old, vanilla-boring sex, the same goes for kissing. Try some variety, and keep things fresh.
Whether you are in a steady relationship, or just beginning to date, how you kiss says a lot about you and what you will bring to the table. For example, some may find that their partner kisses too aggressively, and use too much tongue. No one likes to come away from each kiss with a completely saturated face. As a rule, keep the tongue usage to a minimum. It is also always okay to let your partner know what you like in your kisses, just remember not to tell them what they are doing wrong during a kissing break!
For a change of pace when it comes to your kissing, try kissing different parts of your partner’s face, such as the ears and neck. Another tip for improved kissing is biting softly on the lower lip, or gently nibbling on the earlobe. Or, start with kissing on the neck and cheeks, moving to the ears, and then work your way over to the mouth. It is also important to remember to take small breaks in between kisses. Do not nibble too hard anywhere, or else you may actually hurt your partner. Save the added biting for a later date.
Put your whole body and mind into your kissing techniques; allowing your lips to do the talking for you. A good kiss should feel full of passion, enjoyment, and desire for both partners. Most importantly, kissing can lead to anything. It is important to kiss in a way that delivers fireworks that will continue into the bedroom.
Too often in relationships, the intimate connection of a kiss gets lost on couples. It is important to not let time diminish the meaning of a good kiss, which should never be lost no matter how long you’ve been together. A great kiss is an adventure unto itself, and should always be taken advantage of.
Lynne T Murray