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Sep

Sexual Healing: Surrogacy and the Road to Intimacy

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Sex is one of the most natural things our bodies do.  However for some, there are roadblocks standing in their way of becoming bosses in the bedroom. 

 

One way to defy sexual deficiency is with the assistance of a sex therapist, whose work is to implement talk therapy techniques in order to assist with sorting sexual setbacks.  In cases where a patient does not have a sexual partner, sexual surrogates may be justified as a means to assist with demonstrations of intimacy and utilization of hands on technique.

Sexual surrogacy includes emotional and physical attachment as elements of treatment, providing patients with applied practice to complement conjectural exploration of themselves.   Surrogates are emotionally supportive, and tangible attachment between the patient and surrogate is generally part of the treatment.   Patients know at once that the surrogate relationship is temporary and subsists as an attempt to introduce the patient to love and intimacy as learned behaviors.  Functioning as a sort of “co therapist”, the surrogate is described as implementing hands on practice to assist the patient toward sexually liberation.   While some may suggest sexual surrogacy occupies the same level of social acceptability as varying types of sex work, patients of every gender and their therapists are trusting in the approach of surrogates.

For people struggling with problematic sexual setbacks, dating and relationships can be anxiety-ridden annoyances.  But those besieged by difficulties in the bedroom must keep in mind that sexual wellness has nothing to do with whether you have a partner at a given moment.  Sexual health and liberation do not necessarily depend on intimacy with a partner; rather, they are often deeply rooted behavioral/psychological hang-ups.   In fact by pairing sex geared talk therapy with the facilitation of a sexual surrogate; individuals who have never experienced gratifying sex with a partner have been given the opportunity to do so.  Ultimately by removing sex from its accepted social context and renegotiating the rules of the game, individuals struggling with every variety of sexual dysfunction can work toward carefree copulation.

Sex based setbacks do not take one form.   Myriad concerns including physical health, interaction with a specific partner, cultural or religious issues and behavioral or psychiatric concerns can be the cause for bedside distress.   But by and large, with the support of a therapist and in some cases a surrogate, these issues can be addressed and positively conquered.

R. Darling

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