Sometimes, due to circumstance, partners find themselves miles apart, and although we all know how to have phone sex, some folks are still a little squeamish about a little web cam action.
I’m currently in a situation that makes web cam sex a necessity, and believe it or not it really does add to the relationship. Its fun, sexy and its a lot easier than phone sex, but before you log into Skype with your dick in your hand, here are a few tips to help you out:
Trust me, there is nothing worse than a pixelated penis. If possible, log on with a LAN connection rather than a wireless one. The stronger the signal…the more satisfying the experience.
Get up from the desk
We’ve all had that fantasy where we’re in an office and suddenly we can’t help ourselves – we rip off our clothes, push everything off of the desk, and go at it like wild animals. But let me assure you: having Skype sex at your desk has very little appeal. The desk lamp casts awkward shadows, and since all of your goods are covered by the desk, no one can see what you’re doing. If possible, pull your laptop onto the bed or couch for maximum comfort.
Less is..well…less. Although you’d usually turn down the lights to set the mood, remember that you are on camera. Dim lighting might make you look like an amorphous blob.
Don’t be shy
I know, when you stop and think about it, Skype sex is similar to amateur porn that you don’t get paid for, but remember it’s fun and it’s hot. Make it a performance! Show off what you’ve got, and don’t be afraid to glance at yourself in that little square in the corner to see how you’re doing.
Have a sense of humor
Don’t freak out if the connection freezes up during your awkward cum face, technology is imperfect! Laugh at the experience and try not to get frustrated, this is just to hold you over until you guys can get closer.