Like any partnership, sexual partnerships require efforts on both parts to make an experience memorable and satisfying. Both parties are responsible for their actions inside the bedroom, and both can often make the dreaded “mistake” of doing too much- or not enough to satisfy their partner.
Men are often blamed for a poor performance, as they are often considered the dominant party. So what are the top mistakes that men are guilty of? Here are our top 5 mistakes men make in the bedroom:
Grooming
Women are expected to shave their legs, trim the bush and keep themselves clean right? It should be a two-way street guys! You don’t like seeing a forest on your girl, well, she doesn’t like your jungle either. Do guys find it comfortable running their legs against what feels like a cactus? Of course not! Newsflash guys…Women do love the scruff look, but when that scruff has turned into a mini pin cushion, the sexiness factor is gone and now it just feels like a torture device. When you sweep your porcupine across your partner’s face that feeling she is experiencing is NOT passion. It’s more than likely discomfort so let’s keep a clean trimmed pubic region and a face that doesn’t resemble sandpaper.
Kissing
Nothing gets a woman more in the mood for a night of steamy sex, some foreplay or a quickie more than passionate kissing. So to not lean in to kiss your woman first and foremost is like trying to start a fire with no matches.Diving right into the act will more than likely make her feel like she is being paid by the hour rather than an equal partner in the bedroom. So, lean in for the kiss beforehand, take your time and kiss your woman like she is the only woman on the planet who gets kissed like this. The quicker her mouth’s lips open up in comfort, the quicker all of her “other lips” open up as well.
Nipple Biting
The constant biting of the nipples is perhaps the most hurtful thing a woman can experience, regardless of how much pleasure it may bring her. The breasts are among the most highly sensitive area of the body. Leave the “True Blood” biting to the actors on TV- unless, of course, your partner is one of the many who subscribe to the Vampire fetish. No woman wants to feel like she is a piece of meat. Don’t just focus on the nipple like a chew toy, but give attention to the rest of the breast as well.
Additional Erogenous Areas
Fourth, ignoring the other part of her body. A woman’s body is not a highway with three exits, Breast East and Breast West, and the Midtown Tunnel. While it’s easy to see how a man could get lost in a woman’s Bermuda Triangle (a.k.at the Vagina) there are plenty of other parts of the body that deserve equal attention. Start paying more attention to them. Find a spot on the body- almost certainly she will appreciate the change of pace and that you made the effort to discover her other hidden treasures. Helpful tip here guys, a little licking behind the knees drives us crazy!
Duration
A guy may think that having sex for over an hour without coming to a climax makes him a bonafide Sex God. However, it is actually just the mark of a numb vagina that can only continue with some quality lubrication. Coming soon enough is best, especially from a female’s point of view. No one wants to have sex for that long, no matter what they say. While no one wants a two-second bed session, an hour long session can be just as bad for a woman’s sensitive area. At least buy some interesting wall decor for your girl to look at while you are playing Sex God. If you can get your woman off 1-2 times, yourself off and still leave enough energy to spoon her before you both pass out from exhaustion in under an hour, well than you might be in the category of sex God.
Guys, take these words of advice as food for thought for future bedroom romps.
By Lynne Murray
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