Sexual skill is something most often tasked to and expected of men, but sexual fulfillment is a two way street. Truly great sex requires skill and effort on the part of both partners, not just one. The following is an infographic meant to profile some of the most common mistakes that women make while having sex with men. Yes, we realize men also make many of these mistakes, and a male version of this infographic is forthcoming. Enjoy!
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#42 & 43 contradict each other.
Not really, #42 is basically talking about women who tend to be silent even when they are getting off. So it’s asking these types of women to make some kind of noise, it’s proven most women do not orgasm during intercourse, but don’t act dead is all it’s saying. Make some kind of noise to the pleasure you’re feeling. However, if you aren’t feeling anything, I think it needs to go back up to the top again, tell your man what you want. I mean I have to agree, we can’t read minds, tell us, help us, and we’ll do what you want, I just about guarantee that.
42 is saying, that when things are enjoyable the girl should make some noise.
43 is saying that when things are not enjoyable, she should not pretend they are.
or together; for the girl to provide accurate and discernable feedback as to the enjoyability of what the guy is doing
LEt me put it to you like this: most girls know most of this, and every girl is different. If I’m in a relationship with a guy who treats me with respect most of the time and out of nowhere he suddenly calls me a slut, I will be offended. As for complaining about getting covered in spunk, depending on the guy, it can smell/taste horrible. And if I’m on my period, maybe I just can’t feel sexy with blood flushing like a torrent from my vagina, I would think a partner would understand that. I hope your male list is as man-bashing as this female list was inaccurate.
So i understand now why he can’t stop doing me
What a Shovenist article!
#9- How about men telling us what they want, instead of choking us in the middle of oral? We want it to be hott, too.
Yeah, the list goes on. I’m glad this guy isn’t my boyfriend,or else he would have NO pussy. If he is so demanding about sex, I’d kick hiss ass out of the apartment.
you mean chauvinist and you actually have to say male chauvinist or else he could be chauvinist towards anything
So you surmise that every guy is like the one described above? And you call him demanding? Lady get off of your high horse and just be a sexy lady (dont fucking try… just let it happen).
* Chauvinistic
And no, it’s not. There is nothing wrong with men stating some perfectly reasonable expectations from a sexual partner.
Secondly, if women on dumb shows like Sex and the City get to bang every guy they see and complain about it on the way to becoming “sexually liberated feminists,” guys are allowed to make some general stipulations about what they want in bed.
It’s not a bad thing for people to know what they want. None of these things make for a selfish lover.
If your boyfriend is nothing like this he’s probably a pretty boring and unassertive lay. I feel bad for you. It actually sounds like you’re all of a sudden insecure about your prowess in the sack…
Contradict? Thats a bit narrow minded. Can’t you find something to moan about; like a kiss or caress or the fact he is getting you close and still honestly say, “Wow I was so close, I almost came! You make me feel good.”
Wow! I must be the perfect sex partner. I don’t do any of these mistakes. I guess that is why all my boyfriends still want to have sex with me even after we brake up. I don’t let them though. When it is over it is over…most of the time
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My ex-boyfriend had the nerve to send me a link to this list, that’s why he’s an ex. Lol. Actually he is a better lover than most men and willing to satisfy me. I notice that most men are extremely selfish when it comes to sex. Lets be honest, they don’t want foreplay, they don’t want to get us turned on or in the mood even though it takes 20 mins for us. You’re lucky to get 2 mins of foreplay for their 2 mins of pumping. They always want bj’s and oral sex but won’t return the favor. So they get off and we just swallow a mouth full of bitterness, literally. They last 2 mins and expect us to be satisfied. They expect use to be clean and shaved yet often have forest full of trees with dingle berries growing on them. They expect threesomes with another woman but won’t consider it with another guy. This list is disgusting because we aren’t the ones that need improvement in the sex department, we already get the bad end of the stick up our butts…