From the chat rooms of the 90’s to the simulated universes of today, having sex via text chat has become a staple of the kinky and geeky. Virtual worlds, like Second Life and Inworldz, offer safe havens for furries, snuff fetishists and other sexual perverts who have obscure obsessions, but they’re also populated, abundantly, by people just looking to fuck.
Unfortunately, a lot of the fucking is pretty lame. Maybe it’s just me, but watching an avatar’s head bob up and down over a penis isn’t all that hot, especially when the penis is usually poking them in the eyeball. To counter this, cyber sex utilizes a technique called emoting.
The most common form of emoting I see in world is the “pretend you really feel it” emote. This is when one person types, “mmmm, oh yes, mmmm. It feels so good.” It’s both boring and generic. The other common emote is the play by play: “Sticks one finger into your pussy. Adds two more. Pinches your nipple and twists.” If this works for you, great, but in reality, your fingers are inside your own pants and what’s feeling good down there is unlikely to be effected by how many digits your partner has in your virtual ass.
Good cyber sex is all about the mind fuck. What is it about having a dick in your pussy, besides the sensation, that drives you wild? What do you like about a spanking besides the stingy slap? These are my tips for using emotes to fuck your partner’s mind online.
1. Cyber sex is a lot like role playing. Are you a bi-curious angel, looking for demon to corrupt your innocence? Stay in character and don’t forget that you say things like, “covets the bulge still growing in the demon’s pants with his shaky hands and hopes the demon will be gentle when he defiles the messenger of God.”
2. Talk dirty. This goes for any type of sex, but it’s especially true for cyber sex. Are they a bad boy? A slut? Do they have a tight cunt? A dirty cock? Has there fur been matted by any interesting liquids? Tell them all about it.
3. Describe the effect of the action: This isn’t a play by play of the sex. No one needs the semantics of giving head explained. The effect of having your face smothered while they grind so deep into your mouth that they’re pressing into your nose and cutting off your ability to breathe, on the other hand, can add a lot to a scene. It’s the details.
What makes a person feel like a whore? Is it pounding into their pussy or refusing to make eye contact? Stare at the sheets while pumping yourself vigorously into their over stretched and over valued pussy.
Is a little humiliation play the point of the spanking? That robotic arm swing accompanied by your periodic emoted slap probably isn’t getting the job done. On the other hand, letting them know their pre-cum is causing your pants to cling to your thigh, might help. Or, so might breaking the third wall and asking them if they’re about to prematurely ejaculate in real life too.
Despite popular comment, there’s nothing pathetic about using a virtual world to get your rocks off. You’re making mental connections with real people and it can be a great, STD free, way to supplement your sex life. It can also give you an appreciation for all the little things that go into making a great fuck.