So you’re into Glory-Hole Flicks? While that may be a bit strange to mention on a first date, it doesn’t have to be something you hide for your entire relationship.
The editors at Marie Claire recently dished that couples who watch porn together…stay together. According to a study that appears in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, unmarried couples who watch porn together report that their partnership is more committed and sexually satisfying than those where one partner hides it. This seems to make perfect sense, as all of the usual shame and secrecy around watching porn is eliminated.
So how do you get your partner to watch porn with you?
Mainstream Movie
Dennis Thompson Jr. from Everydayhealth.com suggests that you consider renting a mainstream movie with an explicit sex scene. When watching together, you can broach the subject of viewing something a little sexier. My suggestion: Unfaithful with Diane Lane. It has amazingly hot sexy scenes; although, considering it’s a movie about a woman that cheats on her husband, this movie might lead to a more uncomfortable discussion.
Pillow Talk
How many nights do you spend whispering in each others’ ears before bed? This conversation is easy enough to start, “What’s your fantasy?” When talking about your sexual fantasies it’s easy to broach the subject of watching porn together.
Sex Shop Talk
Every woman I know has been to one of those pleasure parties where girls sneak off to the bathroom to try out toys, outfits, potions, and lotions. While I don’t suggest tagging along for the next “girl’s night,” consider taking a romantic trip to your local sex shop, or browse on the net together. In my experience, you learn a lot about each other while sharing some laughs, and you can naturally work in the possibility of watching porn when you guys check out the selection.
Statistics
Okay, this one might be obvious, but consider just discussing the statistic that couples who watch porn together report having happier more committed relationships. Additionally, you can work in the tidbit that, according to Marie Claire Magazine, over 45% of couples watch porn together (refrain from using the phrase, “everybody else is doing it”). You never know, it just might work!
Once your partner agrees to watch with you, make sure she/he stays involved! Discuss what types of porn you guys are interested in watching together, and be sure to honor your partners desires (goddess translation: glory-hole porn might be a bit too much for the first time).
As always, have fun!
-Goddess
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